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[00:00:00] Jeene Kala Kala Koshkaan, Jeevan Anay Klooghung Kaleyap, is a very good person. You want to make your life a lot more fun. This exclusive Spotify podcast, Gurudev ke Sath, Jeevan Jeene Ki Kala Koshkaan, is a very good person.

[00:00:15] Especially I feel with social media tends to look around and compare their lives and get caught up in trying to do better than others rather than doing what is good for us. It's just an annual exception, which is why I want it to also ask you.

[00:00:27] You know, this kind of time, the remnants are lot about the past and the plan, a lot about the future but how do you stay in the, i'm not able to stay in the present like even now

[00:00:39] I was planning for this interview and after this, over I'll be planned, the mind does not stay calm, it's very difficult to stay honest to this moment all the time. It is tough, but it is not impossible.

[00:00:55] See, all those moments when you are very happy, you are in the present. Those moments you are very contented about yourself or your work, your achievements. Those moments are those when you are totally in the present moment. And also when there is fear, when there is anxiety,

[00:01:18] there are also people who are in the present moment only. But only the mind is vacillating. Any way everything happens only in the present. Nothing can be outside the present moment. Correct. But we have a habit of planning or a revenue.

[00:01:38] And it is good to plan, it is good to plan, it is good to remember the past. But not miss the joy of the moment or thrill of the moment. Like someone is watching a nice movie. They are not looking for the end of the movie.

[00:01:56] Every moment of the movie is enjoyable. If you only want to watch the end of the movie, you can come at the end. Last 10 minutes you can watch and finish it. Like dance also.

[00:02:09] Suppose you are dancing on the stage, it is not that you have to go somewhere in the stage. It is not the end of the dance that matters. It is the whole process. Same with life, sometimes we look forward for some extra achievement in life.

[00:02:33] But think the joy is tomorrow or next year. I would always recommend that our lives should be lived as an expression of joy. Today's food is ready. Now, what do you think of the day? The day is not confidence. Yes, you are very simple. You may consume.

[00:02:57] For example, like me, who tends to be an over-thinker. I tend to think a lot. You put it into perspective. But when you say that, when you are filming, I want to ask you going off topics lightly. But I just want to know.

[00:03:10] Sometimes, when we look at the long flights, we see something. It is good to know that you are one of us and you manage to consume what we also have entered in this do from time to time. But I really get those chances of going on.

[00:03:27] I don't know. Whenever I am here, I am in Bangalore. I see the films of everybody's life. I get everyday so many people. What a life I have moved. That is all. Some of the journeys of this struggle.

[00:03:41] I think we are going to have to do our own films. We always feel as stories. The best story should be narrated to the world. Correct. Is it wrong to feel content with life sometimes, rather than always wanting more? No, no.

[00:03:57] See, frustration is not the way to become more successful in life. Frustration is not the mother of creativity, not at all. Not contentment implies laziness or lack of initiative. You can be content and you can be dynamic. Frustration? You can be content and you can be dynamic.

[00:04:24] Frustration is not the way to become content. And a big business man is somewhere content with his life but he keeps throwing more investment into more new ventures. So that he can grow his business.

[00:04:42] But he is not with the feverishness, he doesn't lose his night sleep to grow his business. Fringibly you are saying it's okay to feel satisfied or feeling happy in the moment. Correct. Time to time we should. Otherwise we will be frustrated if we are frustrated.

[00:05:00] We won't get brilliant ideas and when we don't get ideas, we can't progress, right? I agree. I live alone. I live with my sister, one of my sisters and recently my life overturned into having dad and his two daughters enter my life.

[00:05:22] And now in a very strange spiritual way that is some energy that has allowed me to feel a sense of family again after very long with having two more sisters in my life. But you know, how would you suggest I connect more with that aspect of my life?

[00:05:38] Because I've always missed it but now it's in front of me. I sometimes get confused how to handle it because we always crave. And it comes like run people who have to do.

[00:05:47] Arjun you know you have so many fans, so many people who love your productions, your acting and all. There are like, you know, part of your family. You know when you open yourself up and feel this, everybody is connected to you.

[00:06:05] We simply have to wake up and see that there is a goodness in everybody. Though there may be something that we don't like in others but there is something good in every human being.

[00:06:18] If we can just recognize that one thing, one thing which is common, one thing that we can appreciate. We are done. We feel connected already because we can't expect everybody to be like us 100%. It's virtually impossible, practically impossible.

[00:06:38] So in these situations we must see the common connectivity within us all. Then we don't feel disconnected with anybody. So we feel good within us all. We have a kind of a kind of a mistake.

[00:07:01] We are going to be a big mistake because we want to be a good person, like we are doing it, we expect people to behave in an ideal manner. They don't, because they have their own issues, their own tendencies, their own likes and dislikes.

[00:07:21] They have their own problems. Who's confusion me? A Karniko Pathani Chaltaa ki unka kar true feelings ka? So many times they are not true to their own feelings because of stress and because of circumstances. So we must just forgive all that.

[00:07:45] I usually see people as though they are having little issues. Those issues that can be sorted out, but it's like having a fever or a cold. You don't discard someone because they have a fever or cold, right? You keep them little away, no doubt.

[00:08:07] But they used this, you keep it. But later on you do connect with them. So you still get connected to them in spite of having a cold or a fever. Behaviour me as a he, people come on sick, but I agree with him.

[00:08:24] You have a doctor and a doctor who does not matter what their reaction towards you. It is a matter because if they are in their senses, they will only be good to you. If they are not good to you that means there is something wrong in them.

[00:08:43] They are stressed, they are ignorant, they are hurt, they need some help, they are not well. So you don't get upset with sick people, you know? Today you will be able to do this episode. To practice regularly, follow the way to Spotify for 8 of living Gurudev.