In this episode Ankur addresses a common dilemma: choosing between two job offers that seem identical. He shares his insights on how to make a decision, encouraging self-honesty, clarifying personal preferences, and overcoming fears or hesitations. Tune in for practical advice on navigating tough career choices and making decisions that align with your true desires.
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[00:00:28] So I received an email this morning.
[00:00:31] One morning, an email came.
[00:00:32] Eight years of experience has two job offers and is confused to choose one.
[00:00:37] So it's an experience of eight years.
[00:00:39] Two job offers have been met, but they're confused that they choose what they both have.
[00:00:43] And in his exact words, both offers are the same.
[00:00:46] Same CTC, same brand value, same stability, same location.
[00:00:51] So by saying that, both offers are the same.
[00:00:55] Salary is the same, brand value is the same.
[00:00:59] Stability is the same, the same location is the same.
[00:01:03] And he was asking, he was asking, which of the two offers should I choose?
[00:01:09] My answer was exactly this.
[00:01:10] This was my reply.
[00:01:13] If both are the same, then you should just toss a coin, right?
[00:01:17] Clearly, both are not the same.
[00:01:20] If both are the same, then you can decide as a good choice.
[00:01:22] You can decide as a good choice.
[00:01:24] You don't want to toss a coin, right?
[00:01:26] So this means that both are the same.
[00:01:28] So number one, stop lying to yourself.
[00:01:31] It is the biggest reason why you will make terrible decisions.
[00:01:37] Because you're dishonest with your own self.
[00:01:40] So number one, stop saying to yourself.
[00:01:42] Stop saying to yourself.
[00:01:44] This is the biggest reason why you will make bad decisions.
[00:01:47] That you only say to yourself.
[00:01:51] Then number two, answer honestly, which option do you prefer?
[00:01:56] Do not think of what you should do or what is the right thing to do.
[00:01:59] Instead, ask yourself, what do you want to do?
[00:02:03] Number two, honestly, ask yourself.
[00:02:18] And then number three, given your preferred option, what is the problem?
[00:02:23] What's the hesitation?
[00:02:24] What is troubling you?
[00:02:25] What are your fears?
[00:02:26] And solve for those.
[00:02:28] Because that is the only and the most important thing to solve for.
[00:02:32] Everything else is a distraction.
[00:02:35] Number three, whatever you prefer option is,
[00:02:38] now ask yourself what the problem is.
[00:02:40] Hesitation is a hesitation.
[00:02:41] Which thing is that you are struggling with?
[00:02:44] What is your fear?
[00:02:46] What is it?
[00:02:47] Solve them.
[00:02:47] That is the most important thing.
[00:02:51] Everything else is just distraction.
[00:02:55] Solve for what comes in your way of doing what you want to do.
[00:03:08] Because that is the only and the most important thing.
[00:03:13] Because that is just the most important thing.
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