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Speaker 1: Super morning guys and warm, super Sonic greetings. Hope you
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Speaker 1: are having a fantastic day. Today, we are going to
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Speaker 1: talk about 11 points that will change your life. So
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Speaker 1: here is a book that I read 11 Rules For
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Speaker 1: Life by Jan Baker and I have shortlisted the points.
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Speaker 1: So that quickly we can understand what are the 11
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Speaker 1: things super important that we
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Speaker 1: help you succeed in life. Here. The author is talking
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Speaker 1: to a delivery boy. Now, let's say delivery boy comes
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Speaker 1: from a mediocre background, from a poor background. He's not
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Speaker 1: having the right amount of money with him and he
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Speaker 1: has lots and lots of challenges. So now how he
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Speaker 1: can win in life, how he can become a successful person.
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Speaker 1: So these 11 points will definitely help anyone become super
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Speaker 1: successful in life. Now, let's begin uh with the points. Now,
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Speaker 1: the number one thing that the author talks about here
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Speaker 1: is fitness. See, your physical fitness is the most important
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Speaker 1: thing you can have. Now, first of all, it doesn't
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Speaker 1: take money even if you have, don't have money for
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Speaker 1: your gym membership or uh you say it's expensive, what
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Speaker 1: you can do is uh there are you
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Speaker 1: youtube videos on home workouts, you can start doing it,
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Speaker 1: you can start running, start with 100 m 200 m
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Speaker 1: 300 m and so on. Within one week, you will
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Speaker 1: reach one kilometer or let's say even half kilometer. But
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Speaker 1: within month, one month, you will be start running uh
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Speaker 1: one kilometer or two kilometer.
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Speaker 1: Now, what you can do is within 10 months to
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Speaker 1: 12 months, you will run 10 kilometers easily. Now keep
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Speaker 1: your target very short in the initial days, get in
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Speaker 1: the flow. Because if you will initially, if you will
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Speaker 1: keep very high target, you will get overwhelmed and then
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Speaker 1: you will stop it or if you will suffer body pain,
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Speaker 1: then you will stop it.
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Speaker 1: So it's a simple thing. What happens by physical fitness
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Speaker 1: is you feel uh your emotions are elevated, you feel
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Speaker 1: very high energy in yourself. Now, once you do the
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Speaker 1: hard work, then the happiness you feel is the real dopamine.
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Speaker 1: So there are two types of dopamine, cheap, dopamine and dopamine.
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Speaker 1: We will talk about it at the later stage in
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Speaker 1: this video.
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Speaker 1: Second thing is mastering your emotions. Now, many times you
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Speaker 1: can see that as soon as someone says something to us,
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Speaker 1: which is not as per what we want to listen,
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Speaker 1: we react immediately. As soon as someone reacts on us,
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Speaker 1: we also react. Now this reaction comes from uh our brain.
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Speaker 1: Now brain is having two parts, one is subconscious mind
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Speaker 1: and one is conscious brain. So what this conscious mind
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Speaker 1: does is as soon as uh someone says something bad,
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Speaker 1: what we, our brain thinks that this person is attacking us.
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Speaker 1: So in response of that attack and to protect you,
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Speaker 1: the there are triggers that sense uh inside your body
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Speaker 1: and you react. Now, we should understand this, that the
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Speaker 1: more we react, we become hyperactive and we are not
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Speaker 1: able to focus your whole day would be ruined. Your
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Speaker 1: BP A would be high and then you won't be
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Speaker 1: able to focus
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Speaker 1: for the rest of your day. So mastering your emotions
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Speaker 1: is again, super duper important, not reacting. So for it,
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Speaker 1: you can start meditating, do start with two minutes meditation.
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Speaker 1: There are a number of free apps start with three
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Speaker 1: minute meditation. Do it for one week. Make the target
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Speaker 1: very easy for ini for the initial days. Once you
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Speaker 1: do it, then increase it to five minutes. Next month,
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Speaker 1: 10 minutes within a year, you will be easily be
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Speaker 1: doing half hour meditation. So don't rush but start and
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Speaker 1: be consistent. Uh Don't be moody today. I will do tomorrow.
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Speaker 1: I have work, I will not do the day after tomorrow.
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Speaker 1: I will do then again, I will not do this
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Speaker 1: will never make you successful.
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Speaker 1: Third, very important point is putting yourself first. Now, generally
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Speaker 1: we have a habit of putting ourselves at the last
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Speaker 1: we think OK, first we will serve others, then we
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Speaker 1: will take, if there is a, uh, good cookies out there. And, uh,
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Speaker 1: usually many people take the broken one that, ok, uh,
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Speaker 1: in the friends and family, let them have the best
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Speaker 1: and I will take the last. Now, this will always
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Speaker 1: keep you, uh, in a mentality that you don't deserve it.
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Speaker 1: So it always sends wrong signals to the universe. Now,
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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that you will eat all the good ones.
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Speaker 1: What you can do is have a good one, then
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Speaker 1: you can have a broken one and then it's all right,
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Speaker 1: but at least taste something of the best. So uh
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Speaker 1: in all the areas, then you will start feeling an
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Speaker 1: elevated emotion.
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Speaker 1: Fourth is if you are not having the good background
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Speaker 1: with English, with the education,
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Speaker 1: the only one thing that you actually need to master
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Speaker 1: is English. So once you start mastering your English, you
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Speaker 1: will suddenly be having a large large audience to you.
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Speaker 1: See in be it a bank, be it filing taxes,
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Speaker 1: endless number of things happens in English itself in India.
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Speaker 1: And once you master it, now what you can do
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Speaker 1: is now here, you will have to invest something in yourself.
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Speaker 1: You might go to some English coaching classes, English speaking
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Speaker 1: English learning, you can buy a few books and do them.
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Speaker 1: Now you will have to work hard. See if you
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Speaker 1: want to be successful, you will have to be uh relentless.
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Speaker 1: Even the top businessmen in India today, they have worked
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Speaker 1: a lot
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Speaker 1: in the previous years. That's why all the result is
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Speaker 1: coming down. So you can't get all the success in
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Speaker 1: the world without this additional hard work. If you are
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Speaker 1: saying like 9 to 5, I have already worked. I'm
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Speaker 1: tired now. I will not work. I will go home
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Speaker 1: watch the movie 12 3. See how hard he works
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Speaker 1: to make his dreams alive and possible.
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Speaker 1: So, uh it is just hard work for a few years.
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Speaker 1: But then the rest of your life would be super easy.
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Speaker 1: But if you avoid the hard work, now, if you
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Speaker 1: live an easy life, now your wife, uh life would
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Speaker 1: be hard at the later stage.
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Speaker 1: If there's no cheap dopamine, no cheap dopamines needs the smoking,
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Speaker 1: uh drinking all of these things that give you immediate
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Speaker 1: pleasure and that makes you feel. So it makes uh
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Speaker 1: you know why these people do this because they want
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Speaker 1: to avoid the truth. They don't want want to face
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Speaker 1: the harsh realities of life. Um They are escaping something
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Speaker 1: or the other thing.
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Speaker 1: So if you and me, if we are escaping something,
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Speaker 1: we take resort to all these things, drugs, uh watching
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Speaker 1: deals day and night because we don't want to work hard.
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Speaker 1: We don't want to just keep it aside, focus on
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Speaker 1: our goal and do it. We feel that life is tough.
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Speaker 1: Studies is tough. Uh business doing business is tough. So
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Speaker 1: what we do is we keep on watching TV or
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Speaker 1: phone and we waste plenty of our time there. So
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Speaker 1: this is a very major problem and you need to
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Speaker 1: get this sorted out.
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Speaker 1: Now, another thing is change the hard things. So first
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Speaker 1: you need to stop the c broke my mind and
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Speaker 1: now you need to f uh focus on the hard things.
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Speaker 1: The hard things means doing the workout, doing the meditation,
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Speaker 1: even if you don't feel like it and uh uh
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Speaker 1: doing the studies or working on your business, learning sales
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Speaker 1: and marketing, reading good books because many people when I
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Speaker 1: meet them, they say we don't read books. So now
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Speaker 1: if you don't read books, uh you
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Speaker 1: avoid lots and lots of learning so you can listen
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Speaker 1: to audio books, you can watch your youtube videos. But
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Speaker 1: then again, don't get addicted to them. Uh It should
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Speaker 1: not happen like this, that in the entire day you are,
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Speaker 1: you have watched 1020 youtube videos back to back again
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Speaker 1: another day you are watching, watching, watching just by watching
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Speaker 1: nothing will happen. Watch just one video and implement it
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Speaker 1: for the next one month in your life. Your life
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Speaker 1: would never be the same again. Coming to point number seven,
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Speaker 1: it's called eating the elephant. Now you were saying like
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Speaker 1: saying like what is eating the elephant. Let's say I
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Speaker 1: have a very big task.
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Speaker 1: I have to make my business successful. Now, let's say
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Speaker 1: I divide my business into seven parts, let's say it's
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Speaker 1: a sales marketing hr uh operations and then accounts. So
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Speaker 1: like this uh finance or investing. And then like this,
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Speaker 1: I made seven departments in my business. Now I will
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Speaker 1: start with one which is the weakest or uh the
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Speaker 1: one which is
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Speaker 1: already doing good. So I will take it to the
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Speaker 1: finish line. So I will read something about it. I
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Speaker 1: will learn something about it and then I will start implementing.
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Speaker 1: So once you divide that entire business into a small
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Speaker 1: small part, then again, in sales, you can have subdivisions. Now,
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Speaker 1: once you have these subdivisions start with one,
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Speaker 1: it might take two years, three years, five years, 10 years.
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Speaker 1: But during this phase, you will learn a lot. And
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Speaker 1: once these 10 years are over, these five years are over,
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Speaker 1: these three years are over, you will be mind blown
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Speaker 1: with the progress you have made and this would be
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Speaker 1: 10 X or 50 X level of progress from what
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Speaker 1: you were doing when you didn't do any of this.
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Speaker 1: So distribute the big task into a small small small
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Speaker 1: chunks and then start um mastering those small chunks,
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Speaker 1: correct? Now, one more thing is be the cockroach.
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Speaker 1: Now be the cockroach means now we are all, you know,
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Speaker 1: as soon as the cockroach name comes, we feel like
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Speaker 1: oh so there is a bit of reaction from our side.
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Speaker 1: But there is a major, major thing we can learn
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Speaker 1: even from a cockroach.
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Speaker 1: So what we can learn from a cockroaches. Adaptability. Now,
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Speaker 1: adaptability means seem uh millions of years ago, there were dinosaurs,
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Speaker 1: they were so huge, they were so powerful. Uh Even
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Speaker 1: when we see humans, they were 100 X times bigger,
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Speaker 1: 10 X times bigger than humans more powerful. Then why
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Speaker 1: did the instant uh they just, they were wiped out
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Speaker 1: of the earth because they couldn't adapt to uh to
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Speaker 1: the surroundings to the changing world.
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Speaker 1: Same happens to the very large companies say Nokia and
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Speaker 1: Blackberry who are the number one at a certain point
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Speaker 1: uh in mobile industry, but they have, they were wiped
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Speaker 1: out because they didn't adapt to the change. So if
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Speaker 1: the environment is changing, see now it's the time of
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Speaker 1: A and you are like, no, no, I will not
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Speaker 1: learn A I, this is not for me, then you
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Speaker 1: will be left far behind and people will be taking
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Speaker 1: advantage to grow their business, to grow themselves with the
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Speaker 1: help of A I prepared my whole exercise routine with
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Speaker 1: the help of A I and I did it. So
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Speaker 1: this is how powerful. So you should be ready to adapt.
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Speaker 1: Cockroaches were there in this world millions of years ago,
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Speaker 1: they are here today. They will be here for another
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Speaker 1: million years because they adapt very fast. They keep changing
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Speaker 1: themselves as per the surroundings. So they their body keeps
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Speaker 1: adjusting to the environment change. So always be flexible. Don't
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Speaker 1: be rigid that I am like this, I can't change.
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Speaker 1: So if you have this type of mentality, it would
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Speaker 1: be very, very tough for you to go ahead in
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Speaker 1: life because there would be circumstances where you need to change.
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Speaker 1: But if you won't, then those circumstances will rule your life.
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Speaker 1: You won't be the leader of your life. So master
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Speaker 1: this
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Speaker 1: point number nine is networking. Now see networking had I
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Speaker 1: known this word 10 years back, I would have had
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Speaker 1: 1000 more contracts in my uh mobile phone.
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Speaker 1: What is networking? Having the right people in your surroundings,
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Speaker 1: having lots and lots of connections which are meaningful
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Speaker 1: where you are providing value. So what I do is
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Speaker 1: whenever I meet someone new, I take their contact number,
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Speaker 1: when I come home, I say, OK, this is what
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Speaker 1: I do. These are my social media handles. Let's stay
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Speaker 1: in touch. Let's see how I can help you. So
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Speaker 1: always don't take a number of someone just by thinking
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Speaker 1: that how this person can help you always have this
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Speaker 1: mindset that how I can help this person.
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Speaker 1: So this will also make the other person open to
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Speaker 1: you and they will not feel uh you know, they
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Speaker 1: will have a shield that this person might use me.
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Speaker 1: So I should block this person out of my leg.
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Speaker 1: So instead they should be welcoming. OK. Wow. He, he
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Speaker 1: knows like he is at the initial stage, but he
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Speaker 1: yet he is uh coming forward and asking me if
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Speaker 1: he can help me in some of the other way,
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Speaker 1: let's say he's a copywriter and he's asking me if
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Speaker 1: you want a book on your name, I will be
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Speaker 1: able to help you. Uh you should build your brand.
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Speaker 1: So always suggest something that you are good at and
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Speaker 1: help other people. This will allow your network to be super,
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Speaker 1: super awesome because they will trust you.
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Speaker 1: Number 10 is saying it's my fault.
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Speaker 1: Now, the problem is whenever something wrong happens in our life,
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Speaker 1: we start blaming
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Speaker 1: because of the God. It's happening. God is not in
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Speaker 1: my favor. God is bad. God is giving everything to
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Speaker 1: others but not me. My parents um didn't give me
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Speaker 1: the right education, they didn't give me the right opportunities.
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Speaker 1: Uh Life was brutal. They took away everything. If you
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Speaker 1: keep thinking in these terms, you will never achieve anything
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Speaker 1: in your life. Now, what you can do is as
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Speaker 1: soon as uh something wrong is happening, just say I
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Speaker 1: am responsible,
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Speaker 1: I am responsible because this will prepare your mind that
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Speaker 1: for the future success, you are about to get, you
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Speaker 1: are responsible for it and you take the responsibility that
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Speaker 1: no matter what happened, it's all right. But now on
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Speaker 1: whatever success I'm going to achieve. And this is because
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Speaker 1: of me because I take charge of my life.
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Speaker 1: I don't blame people around that because of you. I
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Speaker 1: am not able to succeed. This is all blaming complaining
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Speaker 1: and comparing and expecting zero. This should not be your
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Speaker 1: objective and aim you should be focusing on. Ok, I
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Speaker 1: take charge of my life. I am responsible for my
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Speaker 1: ill health. I am responsible because of uh because of
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Speaker 1: this be not because of my company, not because of
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Speaker 1: workload because I am not managing my time properly.
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Speaker 1: There are millionaires who are very fit. So they are
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Speaker 1: of course more busy than us. They are having lots
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Speaker 1: of work, multiple companies yet they are fit. So how
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Speaker 1: they are able to do it if they can do
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Speaker 1: it 100% we can also do it.
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Speaker 1: So take responsibility of your life and the last is
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Speaker 1: earning saving and investing. Now many times when I meet people,
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Speaker 1: they say that uh we don't even know how to invest.
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Speaker 1: They always invest in some place where they feel that
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Speaker 1: within two years, three years, they will be millennials. It
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Speaker 1: would be, you know, multi baggers stock this that
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Speaker 1: we all know which are the top 10 companies in India,
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Speaker 1: invest in them, invest in the blue chip stock. Wait,
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Speaker 1: it would take patience, it would take time. But then
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Speaker 1: you would be super wealthy person at certain point in
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Speaker 1: your life. When all of the other people would be struggling,
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Speaker 1: you would be having a very peaceful and amazing life.
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Speaker 1: I have done this. I am super happy with my investment.
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Speaker 1: I always have a peaceful sleep
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Speaker 1: because of the same strategy. So if you don't invest,
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Speaker 1: then your money would keep rotting with you. So make
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Speaker 1: it a point and be assured that whatever you earn,
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Speaker 1: save 20% out of it and always invest it uh 20%.
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Speaker 1: And this is the only way to grow uh invest
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Speaker 1: in good companies and
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Speaker 1: this is what the 11 rules were. Thank you so much.
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Speaker 1: Have a wonderful day. There are links below. I am
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Speaker 1: having a master class uh every Monday and Thursday 8 p.m.
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Speaker 1: So you can always uh you know, join them, learn
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Speaker 1: a lot have been massive value and I'm also sharing
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Speaker 1: my social media handles, let's stay connected. Have a super day.