In this episode, Ankur shares five crucial pieces of advice for men aged 18 to 30 based on his own experiences at 44. From the importance of taking care of your body to understanding the true value of money, each tip is designed to help you navigate the complexities of life with confidence.
00:46 What would I tell an 18 to 30 year old guy?
00:55 Take care of your body
01:33 It's very easy to fall in love with a beautiful face
02:05 Use money to buy your freedom.
03:00 Have your independence
04:04 Spend time with yourself.
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[00:00:29] So, anyone asked on Twitter,
[00:00:31] who are men from 31 to 31 years old,
[00:00:35] men,
[00:00:36] if the girls or men should give a path to 18 to 30 years old,
[00:00:42] then what will happen?
[00:00:44] And I thought about it, and I was like,
[00:00:46] I'm 44.
[00:00:47] What would I tell an 18 to 30-year-old guy?
[00:00:53] Five things.
[00:00:55] Number one, take care of your body.
[00:00:57] In our 20s, if we do our body,
[00:01:00] we do our own mis-treat, mis-use, substance abuse,
[00:01:05] we do not eat good, we do not eat good,
[00:01:08] we do not eat good.
[00:01:08] We do not know much.
[00:01:10] Because in our 20s, our body is now very young,
[00:01:13] very resilient, very strong,
[00:01:15] but all the damage we see in the past,
[00:01:18] in the 30s, 40s, 50s,
[00:01:21] and until it's late,
[00:01:22] it's very difficult.
[00:01:22] Until it's reverse it,
[00:01:25] it's very difficult.
[00:01:50] So, what you will realize is,
[00:01:57] you will have to live with that mind for the rest of your life.
[00:02:04] Number three,
[00:02:28] all of this is a cage.
[00:02:31] It's a cage.
[00:02:32] But if you invest with that money,
[00:02:35] you will learn something from this money,
[00:02:38] you will learn experiences from this money,
[00:02:40] you will get your freedom,
[00:02:42] and you will get free.
[00:02:43] You will be free.
[00:02:44] You will not have any reward on your life.
[00:02:46] You will not run under those false things,
[00:02:48] which you will keep in the cage.
[00:02:50] And that will be the best use of money.
[00:02:53] Number four,
[00:02:54] and this is a bit controversial.
[00:02:56] After marriage,
[00:02:57] if you are married,
[00:02:58] then both set of parents are different.
[00:03:02] Don't leave the same distance,
[00:03:03] but they are different.
[00:03:05] That will ensure that you have your independence.
[00:03:08] That will ensure that you will give a good life in your marriage.
[00:03:15] Which will be about the two of you,
[00:03:17] which will be about your family,
[00:03:18] which will be about getting to know each other.
[00:03:21] And that will be so much as possible,
[00:03:23] as you will live with your parents.
[00:03:26] Don't leave your parents from the same family.
[00:03:28] In the same city,
[00:03:29] in a different house,
[00:03:30] in a different floor,
[00:03:31] even on a different floor.
[00:03:32] But have your independence.
[00:03:34] And then,
[00:03:35] the parents who are the same,
[00:03:36] they will not need to change.
[00:03:38] A new person when he comes to the house,
[00:03:40] he becomes a bit of a clash.
[00:03:42] It's really an expected thing.
[00:03:45] Let that be minimized.
[00:03:47] Let that be removed.
[00:03:48] So,
[00:03:49] as much as independent,
[00:03:50] every person who has the same
[00:03:53] and the same,
[00:03:54] the rhythm,
[00:03:55] the way,
[00:03:56] the way,
[00:03:58] things will be okay.
[00:04:00] Things will be better.
[00:04:02] And number five.
[00:04:03] Meditate.
[00:04:04] And meditation doesn't mean that
[00:04:06] I have to give you a gift,
[00:04:07] a guru has become a guru.
[00:04:08] It means that
[00:04:09] your time is given to yourself.
[00:04:11] Every day,
[00:04:12] without a phone,
[00:04:14] without a book,
[00:04:15] without a music,
[00:04:16] without a logo,
[00:04:17] without any other thing.
[00:04:19] Only in your thoughts.
[00:04:20] The time will tell you.
[00:04:21] That will help you understand yourself.
[00:04:24] That will present you with really tough, challenging questions
[00:04:27] which will be the best answer to you.
[00:04:30] You will not feel good,
[00:04:30] but it will be necessary.
[00:04:32] And the amount of questions you will get,
[00:04:35] the amount of questions you will get easier.
[00:04:38] This is the five things.
[00:04:40] One thing that you have seen,
[00:04:43] one person who has seen life,
[00:04:45] one person who has started life.
[00:04:47] All the best.
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