I'm sharing with you the 6 Powerful Practices that helped me to keep going on the track of achieving my dreams and desires, with an intent to help you make your dreams come true.
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Speaker 1: Hello, beautiful souls. Welcome to the extraordinary show. Wishing you
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Speaker 1: a very happy new year. I am Shalu. Pop your
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Speaker 1: host and coach on this show. Let me start this
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Speaker 1: show with two lines in Hindi which I really liked
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Speaker 1: Manzi Uniko Milt Ha Jin Sapo, Jan Hot ha
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Speaker 1: Manzi, Uniko Mil ha Jin Sapo JHP Khi Hota Holo.
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Speaker 1: Se
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Speaker 1: this means you need strong ambitions, a burning desire and
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Speaker 1: a courageous heart to make your dreams come true.
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Speaker 1: In this episode, I'm going to share with you the
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Speaker 1: six practices from my very own experiences that helped me
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Speaker 1: to achieve whatever I desired for in the year 2023.
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Speaker 1: So let's dive in
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Speaker 1: the year 2023 has been a life changing year for me. Now,
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Speaker 1: why do I say that? Because I took one of
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Speaker 1: the biggest and boldest decisions of my life to leave
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Speaker 1: my super stable it job and start doing life coaching
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Speaker 1: full time.
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Speaker 1: I was doing good in it. However, I got more
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Speaker 1: interested in life coaching in last three years. I was
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Speaker 1: doing it over the weekends. But then I decided to
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Speaker 1: make it my mainstream because it was more fulfilling to
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Speaker 1: see people's life getting transformed through me than doing my
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Speaker 1: regular it project management job. There are about 40 significant
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Speaker 1: events and accomplishments from last year I listed in my
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Speaker 1: post yesterday. Go and have a look if you want to.
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Speaker 1: Now, let me tell you how I was able to
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Speaker 1: achieve all of that. What I have learned is that
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Speaker 1: we can achieve anything that we can think of. It
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Speaker 1: is just that we need to stick to that for
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Speaker 1: longer enough that we start attracting that thing in our life.
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Speaker 1: It is a matter of keeping that thing in your
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Speaker 1: mind always and moving forward, grabbing all the opportunities and
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Speaker 1: staying committed to your dreams and playing life full out.
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Speaker 1: There is a saying that when you have burning desire
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Speaker 1: to achieve something, the universe also conspires to make it
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Speaker 1: happen
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Speaker 1: when we align our energies with divine energy by constantly
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Speaker 1: being in high vibrations, we tend to achieve whatever we
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Speaker 1: are aspiring for.
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Speaker 1: So now let me tell you the six things, the
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Speaker 1: six practices that help me to achieve whatever I aspired
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Speaker 1: for in the year 2023.
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Speaker 1: The very first thing is be clear on what you want.
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Speaker 1: You know, with clarity, we can make better plans. Clarity
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Speaker 1: is power, turn your vague dreams or desires into clear goals.
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Speaker 1: When we are clear, any time we sense an opportunity
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Speaker 1: related to our task, it becomes easier for us to
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Speaker 1: identify and grab it
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Speaker 1: I knew clearly I wanted to do offline webinars. As
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Speaker 1: I saw the opportunity, I grabbed it. The opposite of
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Speaker 1: clarity is confusion.
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Speaker 1: When we are in confusion, we tend to take time
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Speaker 1: to make decisions.
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Speaker 1: I wanted to attend Tony Robbins up. W I saw
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Speaker 1: the opportunity to attend it virtually immediately. I grabbed it.
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Speaker 1: I wanted to do life coaching full time. I left
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Speaker 1: my job because I knew with job it won't be
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Speaker 1: possible to show up with my best energy.
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Speaker 1: So being crystal clear is the most important thing.
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Speaker 1: The second thing is your belief. There is no place
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Speaker 1: for any kind of fear here.
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Speaker 1: When we are in doubt, we can never be in
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Speaker 1: positive energy. Doubt is a resistance that will always come
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Speaker 1: in your way to achieve something big. Please do remember that.
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Speaker 1: What if I fail? What if it doesn't work? What
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Speaker 1: if I am unable to do it? What other people
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Speaker 1: would say? What if they don't like me? What if?
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Speaker 1: What if and what if
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Speaker 1: you know the default setting of our mind is negative.
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Speaker 1: We first think of the negative aspect of anything before
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Speaker 1: looking at the positive side, we cannot get rid of that.
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Speaker 1: Do remember this. However, what we can do is to
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Speaker 1: train our brain to acknowledge the negative, have a plan
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Speaker 1: B for it and look at the positive move forward
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Speaker 1: with the positive without giving much importance to the negative.
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Speaker 1: Our energy attracts similar events, people and experiences in our life.
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Speaker 1: So knowing this, focus on what you want
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Speaker 1: and not giving this doubt any energy, not letting this
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Speaker 1: doubt overpower us.
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Speaker 1: If you can dream big, you can achieve big too.
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Speaker 1: Give yourself permission to believe in yourself and believe in
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Speaker 1: the divine power, what you can believe you can achieve.
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Speaker 1: So don't miss the chance by giving even 1% energy
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Speaker 1: to the what ifs totally believe that you gonna achieve it?
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Speaker 1: And you will.
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Speaker 1: The third thing is staying in the zone. Very important.
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Speaker 1: We are humans, we have mood swings, we have energy swings, right?
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Speaker 1: It is not possible to feel highly positive or energetic
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Speaker 1: all the time. That is truth.
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Speaker 1: So how to keep up with your high energy? The
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Speaker 1: answer is by being in an environment that encourages you
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Speaker 1: to be in the zone by surrounding yourself with like
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Speaker 1: minded people
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Speaker 1: staying in the growth zone is the thing that keeps
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Speaker 1: you moving in the direction of achieving your dreams.
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Speaker 1: When you are in an environment where people are encouraging,
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Speaker 1: inspiring each other to move forward by sharing their progress.
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Speaker 1: You tend to get motivated. Even if you feel low,
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Speaker 1: you will be connected and aligned, right? I put myself
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Speaker 1: into a community of coaches where everyone is working on
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Speaker 1: their inspired mission for life.
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Speaker 1: You are bound to grow in the company of such
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Speaker 1: inspiring people and being mentored by someone who guides us
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Speaker 1: to put our mission. First, community, second and ourselves. Third.
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Speaker 1: So being in the zone, does the magic put yourself
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Speaker 1: into an environment that helps you to grow?
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Speaker 1: The fourth thing is actions.
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Speaker 1: We can't receive anything in life by just sitting on
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Speaker 1: the couch and wishing for those things to come in
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Speaker 1: our life, right? We have to make efforts consistently to
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Speaker 1: achieve something in our life. Without actions, you can't expect anything.
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Speaker 1: Anyone can serve you the food, but no one can
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Speaker 1: chew it for you, right? Same is the case with efforts.
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Speaker 1: We need to chew our food, we need to make efforts.
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Speaker 1: Next thing is accountability. I am so so so thankful
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Speaker 1: to my accountability partner for always encouraging me pushing me
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Speaker 1: towards achieving our many milestones after milestones, accountability plays an
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Speaker 1: important role. In fact, I would say it is a
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Speaker 1: bliss
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Speaker 1: when you have someone in your life who can make
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Speaker 1: you accountable for your own progress,
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Speaker 1: you tend to be on the track always because you
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Speaker 1: have to send your daily reports to them. If you
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Speaker 1: haven't done anything for a day, it's fine, but you
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Speaker 1: can't skip more than 2 to 3 days without doing anything.
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Speaker 1: So having an accountability partner keeps you on your toes
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Speaker 1: for the next step. Always
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Speaker 1: last but not the least. The sixth thing is or
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Speaker 1: the sixth practice is daily rituals. My energy rituals, growth
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Speaker 1: rituals are the fuel for my mission.
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Speaker 1: Daily rituals are very important to stay connected with our
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Speaker 1: true self, to keep the energy levels high, to stay
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Speaker 1: aligned with our goals, to start our day, right? To
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Speaker 1: set the tone for the day to stay aligned with
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Speaker 1: our purpose and to live a conscious life.
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Speaker 1: So these are the six practices that help me to
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Speaker 1: achieve whatever I wanted in 2023. And these still keeps
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Speaker 1: me going on the track to achieve the next levels.
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Speaker 1: Let me summarize the six practices for you. Once again,
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Speaker 1: the first one is being clear on what you want.
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Speaker 1: Second one is believe in yourself and in the divine
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Speaker 1: power enough that there is no place for doubts in that.
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Speaker 1: The third one is staying in the zone. Fourth one
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Speaker 1: is taking actions, making conscious efforts every day to achieve
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Speaker 1: what you want. Fifth is accountability and the last one
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Speaker 1: is daily rituals, set some daily rituals for yourself to
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Speaker 1: stay aligned.
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Speaker 1: So be clear on what you want, keep your ears
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Speaker 1: and eyes opened, grab the opportunities as they arrive, surround
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Speaker 1: yourself with growth minded people, take inspired actions and find
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Speaker 1: an accountability partner, set your daily rituals to stay aligned
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Speaker 1: with your dreams and you should be able to see
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Speaker 1: your dreams come
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Speaker 1: true with this. I'm wishing you a very fulfilled year ahead.
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Speaker 1: If you're not a part of my community already, you
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Speaker 1: may go to extraordinary life hub.com and register for my
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Speaker 1: upcoming webinar. This is shale poly signing off. Catch you
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Speaker 1: in the next episode. Till then, please take care of
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Speaker 1: yourself and God bless you.