Depression to India's Yougest Life Coach : Story of Gargi Arya

[00:00:00] Hello Gargi, Hello Mom, How are you? I am fine, what about you? I am good too. Thank

[00:00:16] you so much for inviting me here, it's absolutely my honor also to be here. So thank you for

[00:00:22] inviting. Thank you, thank you so much and you are welcome and it's an honor for us

[00:00:29] actually specially you know I wanted the first episode to be yours but because you are so

[00:00:35] much you know busy and in demand and really working hard so kudos to you. So we can continue

[00:00:42] now let's you know let's continue. Okay, so I just want to introduce I think most of you

[00:00:49] already know because I already posted many times but I just want to tell you Gargi

[00:00:55] is India's you know youngest life coach. So she only going to tell what is life coaching

[00:01:02] is all about and how she's helping but at her age she's just 15 and she's handling so many you know

[00:01:10] women and community and helping them with respect to their healing part and that is also emotional

[00:01:16] part. So at her age dealing with that emotions and sorting out their problem itself is you

[00:01:24] know truly recommendable. So kudos to you. I know about it emotional healing and all because

[00:01:29] I myself went through that and I really understand it's so difficult you know to address that when

[00:01:36] you hear and at this age doing that itself is a you know miracle I would say. So kudos to her

[00:01:44] and we are really truly honored to have her in our show. So Gargi it's up to you now just

[00:01:50] tell about your story how it started and what motivated you to help women with respect to

[00:01:57] emotional healing and life coaching side and what are the challenges you have faced. So

[00:02:02] you can tell everything so we really excited to hear from you only. So it's up to you thank you.

[00:02:09] So hi everyone like thank you so much for being here on the show. So like thank you for

[00:02:15] the beautiful introduction but before I introduce myself would just like to tell about my story

[00:02:21] because whenever somebody you know gets to know about me for the first time there they are like

[00:02:27] how can a young girl do life coaching at such a tender age. Yeah that is true. Like my story

[00:02:33] began at the age of 13. I lost someone I loved not because of death but because of some clashes

[00:02:40] in our family and you know one can feel that how it feels whenever somebody close to your heart goes

[00:02:48] away and you just see the bond is going to be no more. So that was something which happened with me

[00:02:55] and you know I was not able to accept that reality of my life. So I was just trying to

[00:03:01] escape I was trying to hide I was just not facing it or just not accepting it and you

[00:03:07] know I started feeling as if being the victim of my life and from there on my journey to getting to

[00:03:14] know myself actually started because at that point of time through all the suffering which I was going

[00:03:20] through one tipping point came in my life when I was like Gargi you know what enough is enough

[00:03:27] now you have to do something about it and I was just so tired of myself that one day

[00:03:34] I finally decided that now I am going to step a step up and stand up for my own self and that's when

[00:03:41] the game actually started changing. So I took one decision of my life and that decision was that I am

[00:03:47] going to take 100% responsibility or whether good happens or bad happens and I'm not going to

[00:03:54] blame not going to complain not going to make any excuses and from there on my journey to

[00:04:01] personal development actually started. So from the age of 13 after going through depression after

[00:04:07] going through that phase of my life I started writing a book I started making my bucket list and you

[00:04:14] know like I just hopped on into this personal development world then got to know about success

[00:04:20] Gyan did like some certifications over there and just to make a long story short today my name

[00:04:27] is Gargi Arya I'm 17 years young like currently giving my 12 board exams and basically I am India's

[00:04:36] youngest certified life coach trainer international speaker recently I've been to 10 author of the

[00:04:42] book The Lion-Hunted Soul and many more things ahead and I am on a mission to help people

[00:04:48] ignite their inner champion build a solar line business and like monetize their message. So these

[00:04:55] are the three things which I do in my mission and the only thing which I feel is at that point of time

[00:05:02] when I was suffering I lacked that one person with whom I could be comfortable in sharing everything

[00:05:08] and that's why my biggest reason for whatever I do is to be that light for somebody who is in dark

[00:05:15] and get them out of there. So that's my story coming to the challenges like when I started as

[00:05:22] a coach what were the challenges which I faced first fear of you know judgment like I never had

[00:05:30] the courage and confidence to show up on camera to make videos to make reels so I used to post

[00:05:38] reels and everything but one day one of my friends told me you are a motivational speaker

[00:05:43] and you yourself don't have the confidence to come on camera so it somewhere hit me and from

[00:05:50] then I just gave myself a challenge that I want to be you know I want to show up as like on camera

[00:05:58] so that was one thing fear of judgment second thing of course was fear of criticism because

[00:06:05] you know not everybody actually like yes I have many people who actually appreciate me for the

[00:06:13] work I do but also there are many people who criticize me who don't like the work I do

[00:06:19] who somewhere feel that you know at the age when I should study which I'm already doing

[00:06:25] I'm also doing these things with somewhere kind of distracts me as other people think but fear

[00:06:32] of criticism was another thing but the only thing which I keep in mind is I use their limiting

[00:06:38] belief to fuel myself that I can do this and the third thing was of course vulnerability

[00:06:46] vulnerability because when I had my first interview I was still confused whether I

[00:06:52] should speak about depression or no so coming to a point where I could be I could have the

[00:06:59] courage to speak my own truth that was another challenge because before my first interview

[00:07:05] anybody who used to ask me how did you become a speaker or a coach I just used to tell them

[00:07:11] during covid I watched some motivational videos last day I got the motivation to start yeah I can

[00:07:17] understand I can understand so it's okay it's fine reason is you know our society is not

[00:07:25] acceptable you know with respect to that is the reason so it's pretty common fear of judgment

[00:07:31] and all so people you know project their own inabilities and insecurities on others

[00:07:37] you know just to check on because they were not able to do that or they think it's not even their

[00:07:43] problem is their beliefs like okay this is you know young age they cannot do that but nowadays

[00:07:49] everybody you know starting early age and anyway they are you know getting exposed to the you

[00:07:56] know the internet so why not helping others if somebody is able to and it is not even problem

[00:08:03] right their problem whatever schooling part and all so it's up to whoever is doing their parents

[00:08:09] I should bother about that so not everybody so it's really you know to know your story

[00:08:19] one question you know literally came in my mind that is you know normally what happens

[00:08:25] you are already a motivational speaker that is you know facing you don't have a fear of stage

[00:08:30] and all then camera is pretty you know I feel like it is very as compared to you know stage and all

[00:08:39] so why you had that fear I'm just wondering because you are already you know master of everything

[00:08:45] and maybe you know I don't know that's very surprising for me but you're really doing

[00:08:51] you know doing the great job and so my next question is somebody you know how to how you deal

[00:09:00] with you know somebody is going through emotional pain and all at your age now you are 17 but you

[00:09:08] started early so understanding that because you might have not gone through that you are you

[00:09:15] know handling women and they they have a different sort of problem which you might not be knowing it

[00:09:21] at your age so how you handle that how you take tackle and able to understand that yes like the

[00:09:29] people who are of my age right the teenagers part yes okay so whenever I get to hear that somebody

[00:09:37] of my own age is suffering through something you know like first thing if they want help then

[00:09:43] I am there because sometimes even when you are just sharing out and not giving any advice as a

[00:09:49] coach or speaker that to help the other person second thing is like all I tell them is that you

[00:09:57] know if you feel like crying it's okay to cry because a lot of the teenagers what they say is

[00:10:06] like what I've seen my friend speaking crying makes us weak but I never believe in this

[00:10:12] thing because crying will never make you weak it will actually you are just putting it off whatever is

[00:10:19] there within you you are just putting it out so that's the second thing and third thing which I

[00:10:25] know is that you know like every message every mess has a message so if suppose you are going

[00:10:32] through something in your life at that point of time even when you're not able to find out

[00:10:37] the message why is it happening I used to feel it also when I was you know when I still suffer

[00:10:44] and when I was suffering at that point of time I also used to feel why God are you doing all of

[00:10:52] this to me but today if I just look back and see that depression I don't carry any regrets because

[00:10:59] that was the incident which made me the person who I am that triggered you yes so the only

[00:11:06] the only thing which every person not only teenager but everyone who is suffering in their life is they

[00:11:12] can ask themselves you know what's great about this what's great about this problem how can I turn

[00:11:19] this problem around so that it has less impact on me so every time whenever I'm posed with a challenge

[00:11:26] or any situation which is not going in my way the only thing which I asked myself is you know

[00:11:32] like gargi how can you respond in a much better way than you did it last time because life is like

[00:11:41] this your life is going to keep teaching you lessons and if suppose I didn't lesson I didn't

[00:11:49] learn that lesson in the first go same lesson will be taught will taught by life to me with

[00:11:56] more intensity. If second time maybe if I don't learn third time it will come to me in the

[00:12:01] greater intensity so the thing is all you need to do is ask yourself how can I change this pattern

[00:12:09] how can I break this pattern if I'm always reacting how can I start becoming more calm so

[00:12:16] that's getting that is really you know great insight and that will really help me also because

[00:12:23] that is everybody you know this is a common problem and that is really going to help me

[00:12:29] also and my next question is because you know I'm aware of life coaching but I want everybody to

[00:12:37] know about it you know what exactly so can you just throw some light what exactly the life coaching

[00:12:43] right and what are the role of life coaches you know in anybody's life and is it

[00:12:51] only necessarily with respect to healing or in different areas also they can take a help of

[00:12:56] life coach yes so thank you for asking this question the first thing is let that life coach

[00:13:04] who is a life coach for me in my view a life coach is a person who is always you know walking the

[00:13:11] talk and who shows people the way like I am let's say if I'm a life coach whatever path I'm

[00:13:18] designed designing for the people who are in my community it is not something different

[00:13:24] these are just the steps which I took which worked for me which gave me the result and when

[00:13:30] I'm going to create it into a path it is going to help them get the results too so for me a life

[00:13:37] coach is somebody who guides people who shows them the way and who makes a proper roadmap

[00:13:43] for them that it's just like you know it's just chocolates for them to eat that they just

[00:13:49] need to listen to the thing and then just implement it so that's what life coaching is for me

[00:13:56] the second thing a lot of people you know life coaching is just like a booming sector in India

[00:14:02] it is still developing it is not yet complete so whenever you are if suppose you are going

[00:14:08] to become a life coach or if you are going to choose this career many people will not support

[00:14:14] you in the first initial phases because I remember the first time I told my friends and family I want

[00:14:21] to be a life coach they were like who is a life coach you know it's just that awareness is

[00:14:28] that you are going to be giving to them so the only thing that we need to understand is

[00:14:35] if suppose you are wanting to become a life coach all you need is a heart to serve and a

[00:14:41] passion and a burning fire inside you that I want to do this because this is also not easy

[00:14:48] a lot of people think life coaching is easy you know but it's not easy dealing with emotions

[00:14:56] and that overwhelm also right so with this you know that reminded me another question you

[00:15:02] already answered if somebody want to you know become a life coaches so I just want to have

[00:15:10] another question so it is all about you know tackling the life challenges right plus healing part

[00:15:17] also right if somebody want to having a previous traumatic instances or anything right they want

[00:15:25] to progress in their you know life challenges so having a life coaches will tell the way

[00:15:31] how to tackle the life related problems right any problems related to so yeah I got it

[00:15:39] and other than you know depressions and all so that also normally happens due to our thinking

[00:15:45] pattern only right that happens because once we are going into that feeling so it you keeps

[00:15:52] going down down if at that point of time you are able to share it to somebody who is non-judgmental

[00:15:59] right so within families if we share that we hesitate why do we hesitate we hesitate fear

[00:16:05] of you already told judgment criticism and all but if we have a third person right who is not even

[00:16:12] you feel more comfortable right with the third person who will not tell this and they will

[00:16:17] not be judgmental they are not bothered about you know they are more bothered about your growth

[00:16:23] that's what I feel because I myself had a personal experience so that's that's the reason

[00:16:29] life coaches are needed so you you already told right the how it has to be now my specific question

[00:16:36] is with respect to healing and the stress relief so what is your approach with respect to healing

[00:16:42] and the stress relief as a life coach so like what I do myself and like what I like tell other

[00:16:51] people to do is first thing is that you know build some rituals for yourself I used to be somebody

[00:16:59] who used to wake up and then check social media check all the things which are happening in the

[00:17:05] world I never knew about what's manifestation what's the attitude what is the workflow what

[00:17:11] is my exercise so I think the first thing that you need everybody needs to start doing is

[00:17:18] whenever you wake up don't just open up your phone I've seen

[00:17:27] so the first thing is like whenever you wake up at least for one hour don't check your phone

[00:17:34] I do the same thing if I'm waking up at 8 am I'll not check my phone for one hour if I'm

[00:17:41] waking up at 5 6 7 whatever time I wake up I'll not check it for one hour and that one hour is just

[00:17:48] for me like I do gratitude I read something a plifting I write my goals I remind myself of my

[00:17:56] why I visualize what's 2024 going to look for me positive initialization yes so this is the first

[00:18:05] second thing is start spending time with nature you will fall in love I used to be somebody who

[00:18:14] never used to sit in balcony I never enjoyed sitting in nature but recently through the

[00:18:20] experiences which have gone through the first thing which I realize is peace is found in nature

[00:18:27] like even when you don't have time fine time at least 30 minutes to just sit there in nature spend

[00:18:36] time in it do nothing don't do nothing just be there just be there feel the nature

[00:18:45] and you will find peace there so that's something I also do in order to release stress and the

[00:18:52] third thing I feel is call up anybody you love you know like many people wait that this person

[00:19:01] needs to first call me was the first effort needs to be done but I think that you know if suppose

[00:19:08] you have a great bond with somebody or if suppose you just want to call up any friend or family

[00:19:14] member you can just call and have you know chit chat or anything because the people we love

[00:19:22] what happens is whenever we lose somebody after that we realize that this person mattered so much

[00:19:29] in our lives yeah but if you yes but if you can just catch up five minutes ten minutes of your

[00:19:35] daily schedule to just call somebody who matters and let them know that they are special for you

[00:19:41] that will work like wonders frankly I'm telling I'm feeling like I'm not talking to 17 you know

[00:19:49] year old I'm talking to somebody who is very experienced with respect to you know yes so

[00:19:54] that is always wondering me like you know at this age you already giving her you know life lessons

[00:20:01] for everybody so it is you know really I'm thankful you came here because there are many

[00:20:08] points you know which I will be taking and applying on myself these are the habits even

[00:20:14] I have to develop so that is you know I'm really thankful you came here so with respect to that

[00:20:21] I'm just wanted to you know know about if somebody want to reach out to you right so how they can

[00:20:29] reach out to you and what how you can help them you know with respect to is it really only for

[00:20:38] depression and healing or in other areas also you are supporting and just some some bit about your

[00:20:45] challenges etc right that approach which you take it what you do exactly there so that will you

[00:20:51] know whoever is watching if they're really going through that so it will give them some idea

[00:20:56] you know how what they have to go through and how much time you take it you know with respect to

[00:21:03] that so it will give them a clear picture if they want to reach out to you yeah okay so like

[00:21:08] basically if somebody is looking to connect with me you can just follow me on Instagram

[00:21:14] like mostly I'm active there so Instagram all my updates regarding masterclasses workshop

[00:21:21] they come and like I have this masterclass called super blog to super attractor where my emphasis

[00:21:28] is mostly on three things because I believe it's coming from my personal story of overcoming

[00:21:35] depression and all things mental health issues the first thing which I realized was there are

[00:21:41] three root causes of everything in life mindset emotions and energy your emotions your energy

[00:21:48] your mindset is the whole game of everything that you are operating in your life so that's what I get

[00:21:54] deep into understanding about you know letting them know letting people know that you don't have to

[00:22:02] work just for the sake of survival or just to earn money but you can actually tap into your

[00:22:09] true potential build something of your own which is turning your idea into a kind of

[00:22:16] movement a revolution in the world making a difference in people's lives by becoming a coach

[00:22:21] or a trainer you know by transforming them through one to one guidance or through a group

[00:22:27] coaching model so that's my like workshop about super blog to super attractor and like I'm the

[00:22:34] founder of something called quantum leadership academy right now we are 35 to 36 members in that

[00:22:42] group and basically like it's a community which I started last year and you know like the way

[00:22:49] it has grown all we do is three things igniting our inner champion second building a solar line

[00:22:56] business and then like getting to know why understanding what is that you need to

[00:23:02] make a business like what is that you need to start and the third thing is helping them become

[00:23:08] coaches and trainers by also not only transforming lives but also at the same time you know earning

[00:23:16] as a coach so these are the three things which I do and like it's a lifetime membership as Siddharth

[00:23:22] sir always guides us yeah that is true and you already started earning you know from very

[00:23:29] young age right so what was your response of your parents right and how much they I mean I do

[00:23:37] understand they are supportive only but what was their response with respect you know starting

[00:23:44] earning at early age yeah so when I initially started my parents have always been supportive

[00:23:52] but you know like whenever I told them that I want to be a life coach I want to be a life coach

[00:23:59] initially they didn't believe because it's a very new profession and everybody who's to feel

[00:24:05] that it's just the social service and at the end the only thing that they other people my family

[00:24:12] members used to ask me was will you be able to earn money through this because at the end of the goal

[00:24:19] their goal is that you know you should be successful as a person also and in terms of your financial

[00:24:26] life so whenever I used to tell them that I want to be a coach they used to tell me do

[00:24:33] this thing as your passion but at the same time do something else so that you have a revenue also

[00:24:41] yes so but you know through my constant efforts through my belief in this through the way I was

[00:24:47] just like growing in my personal and professional life my parents saw the passion in me I still

[00:24:54] remember the first time I wanted to do a life coaching certification they said no they said

[00:24:59] that you know we will not invest in these programs because it will not get you anywhere

[00:25:05] through the constant efforts put out in the three months after I asked when I asked for the second

[00:25:12] time they were like go ahead we can see the fire in you you will be a successful coach so after this

[00:25:19] like since then they have always been supportive and like when you ask the question regarding

[00:25:25] you know like when I started earning how did they feel they were like you know

[00:25:31] so even if I'll be pursuing my higher studies my only career will be life coaching and helping coaches

[00:25:41] so everybody every parents want them you know to be financially secure also emotionally

[00:25:48] secure everybody so they wanted and you already proved your you know capability yeah you can do

[00:25:54] that so I don't think any parents will have a issue as long as you are able to manage because this is

[00:26:00] a you know public platform so you're already a motivational speaker and also you know how to

[00:26:05] manage you know even different you know circle so that that is truly you know unbelievable

[00:26:13] you started so early and my next question is you know with respect to your schooling side

[00:26:21] so how do you manage and what are the changes you faced within your schools also did you face any

[00:26:29] challenges with respect to your schooling curriculum and how do you manage basically this along with

[00:26:35] your educational background yeah yes so basically I am a humanity student I have subjects like

[00:26:43] psychology sociology history English political yes so like I started this I was doing my life

[00:26:52] coaching certification when my 10th words were going on so I already know that even if my 12th

[00:27:01] words are going right now I'm still doing coaching I'm not stopping on it so I think the

[00:27:07] first thing is my parents are very particular about my academics they've already told me if

[00:27:13] my academics gets down my coaching will get down too okay so you you were already prepared yeah

[00:27:19] yes so the next thing is regarding this discipline I get them get it from them because if I have to

[00:27:28] do coaching I have to balance my academics no matter what so that's the first rule second thing is

[00:27:35] I don't follow any timetable because it does not work for me but like I always know my three

[00:27:42] priorities for the day that top three priorities for the day no matter whatever I do the whole day

[00:27:49] even if I'm lazy even if I'm not you know good feeling good I know the at the end of the day

[00:27:56] these are the three things which I need to complete before that I will not sleep

[00:28:01] so that's the second thing and third thing is of course the why you know the why part why I'm doing

[00:28:08] this and fourth is like whenever I'm feeling low whenever I'm feeling you know like I'm not getting

[00:28:15] any result according to the efforts I just see the video of ILS or ILS family

[00:28:20] okay got it you take inspiration from that yeah that was my next question reason is whoever

[00:28:26] works in healing they have to maintain the energy and you are already you know I will not mention that

[00:28:33] that is because you are very studious you know so your exception I would say you know so I should

[00:28:39] not mention that but it's still I'm telling even for anybody even for the you know adults also

[00:28:46] whoever is doing life coaching or healing they drain energy with respect to so as a life coach

[00:28:53] how you manage that that was my next question yeah so you already partially answered if you want to add

[00:29:00] something you can tell that like my key to my energy is like the mentors I'm having right now

[00:29:07] whenever I'm low on energy I just go and watch any video or course of them I am back on track

[00:29:13] second thing is like my own self belief in myself that you know there are some days

[00:29:21] everybody sees that Gagi is getting this award Gagi is getting this award she's going there she's

[00:29:28] achieving this but nobody actually sees the back end of the work like even if we are recording this

[00:29:34] podcast and posting it nobody is going to see the prep behind it right yes so the the second

[00:29:41] thing is whenever I am low on my own self that I start doubting my potential as a coach or

[00:29:47] something I just know and look forward to that one big day that one day will come when all of this

[00:29:54] will be paid off so I think like my self belief comes because I am every single day making a

[00:30:02] connection with God with my supreme creator I have full trust on universe that it is going to

[00:30:10] happen so that's the second thing I believe in angel numbers a lot so like 11 11 12 12

[00:30:17] so every single day I have a diary which is dedicated to angels communicating with angels

[00:30:25] like you know believing in such things I don't know if somebody is listening this for the first time

[00:30:30] they might feel what is she doing but this is like for me spirituality is connecting with the

[00:30:37] supreme creator and having faith over fear so those are the two things which I would like to add

[00:30:43] yeah yeah so because you talked about you know awards etc so I just want to you know tell you

[00:30:50] you are literally miracle okay so nobody can give you any award okay for them they should have

[00:30:57] because I'm talking about if you know whoever is watching they're not aware what is you know

[00:31:03] depression coming out of itself and doing this much is I'm literally I'm telling it's a really

[00:31:10] miracle at your age now I will mention that and you don't need any award from anybody because

[00:31:16] you yourself is you know you should start giving award I would really say so those awards

[00:31:23] doesn't matter before you because that are only for you know feeling significant as compared to

[00:31:29] others so you already have you you yourself is the award you know I you came here that is award for me

[00:31:37] because coming out or out of depression that is handling by yourself okay nobody can do even I was

[00:31:43] not able to do that and then coming up with this and helping 35 and that is also emotional healing

[00:31:51] when you went through that and helping others with respect to emotional you know healing

[00:31:57] I can relate with that how much energy or how much you know daily efforts you might be doing it

[00:32:05] so I don't think any award or something which you get also that can compensate or that can you know

[00:32:12] make you feel like you know you you are worth then this award no I don't think so that can

[00:32:19] anything can do that and do not bother about that you're really doing you know great job and

[00:32:25] I think that was you know for you that was a pre-written destiny being a life coach talking to

[00:32:32] you and then I realized how much strength you have it okay how much strength you have it because

[00:32:39] I have seen people suffering from you know depressive thoughts and all and thinking about

[00:32:44] something and having that you know energy to help others that is at different level so you

[00:32:51] don't need any award you don't need any you know validation from others appreciation and

[00:32:58] all nobody will appreciate to see you will never get it if you're doing extraordinary you will

[00:33:03] never get it so you're already you know above extra ordinary and do not you know bring yourself

[00:33:11] down with respect to seeing you know other external factors you are already at something

[00:33:16] else you know you are already a miracle I would say at this age and when you started that was you

[00:33:23] know already miracle I would say so don't you know compare with anybody you are just unique and

[00:33:30] no award can really you know keep you I would say you're already awarded wherever you will go

[00:33:37] now that that itself is a word for like me or somebody so I'm really you know happy you came

[00:33:44] here in our show and knowing your story and really you know understanding coming out from you know

[00:33:52] depression and then helping so many women and having that energy more than intention you know

[00:33:59] to do that and going through this much of you know hurdles I would say you are really a

[00:34:06] miracle and wherever this is a true path for you this is really a true path for you and

[00:34:12] somehow you know whatever what you went through that was a maybe destiny which God has written for

[00:34:19] you because they wanted you to you know serve so many people you know younger generation older

[00:34:26] whatever because I am not feeling I'm feeling like I'm talking with somebody very experienced you

[00:34:31] know who has gone through at early age you went through that and maybe you know that is

[00:34:38] so you are going to be I don't think India's youngest you I hope you will you know beat the Tony

[00:34:45] Robbins thank you after few years you will be that so this is what I you know believe and

[00:34:55] kudos to you that's what I can say so do you have any question for me then like I just

[00:35:02] want to ask that how do you keep your energy no I'm that I'm taking inspiration so I talk to

[00:35:10] see I am introvert by nature so I keep you know interaction very limited so I'm also following

[00:35:17] you know Siddharth model only for time but prior to that also I was very focused in the sense

[00:35:24] I know my energy and I will not interact where I feel you know I'm very you know

[00:35:30] straightforward I will not talk actually so simple I'll maintain that even with family

[00:35:36] members also I feel it is you know draining and all I will keep distance even with my parents or

[00:35:43] whoever it is I know that okay this is what is blocking me I'll make a distance so from

[00:35:49] my childhood only I was like that I knew like okay this is what and yes I was also likes

[00:35:57] because you want to get everything you know awards etc even I was also like that you know

[00:36:05] and I'm still like that but sometime I feel like what it's okay I should you know help others

[00:36:13] also so truly I am telling you for me you are a miracle because at your age I was too focused

[00:36:21] with respect to my own growth you know my own finances my own career I was very career oriented

[00:36:28] and I was focused on it I was very focused with respect to that and I used to listen

[00:36:35] whatever you know my mind says and my heart says so this is what I did it and parents

[00:36:42] side also you know I used to tell them for me also there was a lot of hurdles so I was in

[00:36:48] IT professionals so I went into that career and I myself went through you know I'm still

[00:36:56] that's the reason you're miracle for me because I can relate with you so I went through proper

[00:37:01] entire you know from 2016 it started with the stress and then depression so I take

[00:37:08] medication also but along with that I was going through a lot of you know job related

[00:37:13] challenges so this episode is dedicated for you so I don't want to go into my story around that

[00:37:20] but I'm able to relate with you reason is I myself went through that and I had a

[00:37:28] traumatic you know slightly childhood experience also and moreover I can understand you know

[00:37:35] what you went through emotions side also you know being in the depression because I know a lot

[00:37:39] about it so coming out of that and then doing this much is really you know unbelievable for me

[00:37:46] so I'm really thankful I connected with you and somehow we are able to do this episode

[00:37:52] and I'm really you know excited like whoever is watching please you know if you miss something

[00:37:59] just rewatch this telecast because that will really inspire you and wish a gargi to be a next

[00:38:07] you know gargi only I would say you know life coach and I want her really want her to succeed

[00:38:13] in much beyond what she is right now so thank you so much gargi and for coming here and spending

[00:38:20] time and you know literally talking to you made my day so thank you so much bye bye take care

[00:38:27] all the best thank you so much for having me here and thank you so much everyone bye

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